The ability to be a man is quite to difficult to learn, be it in school, from friends, or even asking women for advice!
We, as men have been denied how to be men and this usually results in 1 of 2 behaviours in men:
1. A nice guy who always gets walked all over, always put up with any type humiliation, and does nothing about it.
2. Men that become jerky due to their pasts with women, and will hurt women in the process.
Incidentally the jerk will always get the girl over the nice guy, simply as he knows how to demonstrate strength, however the jerk never lasts with women as he ends up making countless heartbroken enemies in women.
Neither being a jerk or nice guy bodes well with us men.