Tricks To Attract Women

* Show up!

You’ve got to get out of the house. Make a plan, Stan. Take out your calendar, call your friends, and commit to going places. When you make agreements, the odds are that you will keep them.

* Be friendly.

If you feel shy or socially awkward, you need to practice talking to strangers. Go to the mall and find an agreeable looking guy you don’t know. Ask him a question. Repeat this process over and over. This technique works! Then, when you get to a social setting, scan the room for an interesting woman, get near her, and ask her a question. If you like her, keep talking.

* Grooming Counts.

Women like men who are clean, well groomed, and who smell good. Your aftershave should not shout when you enter a room, but a faint masculine scent is appealing. Clean nails, hands, hair, and clothes are necessary. Go through your wardrobe and ask a woman friend what looks good on you.

*There’s magic in your eyes!

Women are drawn to men who look them in the eyes when they talk. But here is a major secret few people know, told to me by an expert colorist: wear something the color of your eyes and notice how people are attracted to you. Actually, the eyes have many shades of colors. Identify what they are exactly and then choose clothing that matches one of those colors. My client wore a shirt the color of green in his eyes and he became irresistible!

Protect From Niche Dating Websites

The real growth in the online dating industry, in terms of membership numbers, appears to be coming from the smaller niche dating sites. More and more websites are beginning to cater to people with specific interests and needs.

Single golfers can go to one of the bigger name sites and sift through thousand and thousands of profiles looking for someone in their area who likes to play golf. Alternatively, single golfers can go a dating website with a specific interest like golf and quickly find people they have something in common with.

The problem with many of the newer niche dating websites is the lack of a track record in the online dating world. The barriers to entry are very low when starting an online dating website and as a result, this is bound to attract some companies or individuals who are not very reputable.

If you are considering joining a newer niche dating website, you should always exercise caution. New online companies have to be tested and proven just like their bricks and mortar cousins.

To help determine if a niche dating website is legitimate, one very simple and effective test you should do is to look for the companies contact information, which should be clearly posted.

Red flags should go up if a niche dating website does not have their contact information clearly posted on the site. If you can’t find a street address or a contact phone number, chances are you will probably not find them if a suspicious charge appears on your credit card.

If the only way to contact an online dating website is through email, you maybe well served to take your business elsewhere.

First Dates

The reason for a first date with anyone is to see whether you want to date them a second time. The whole dating process is a screening process to help you find that special someone. As a way of getting to know someone, going to the movies is actually a poor choice
for first dates.

Close, but no cigar

The two of you will spend two hours together. Close together, but not talking! That is like having sex on the first date. Also close together; no talking. In either case, the lack of communication does not help you get to know the other person. This would be like going to the library and reading books on a sofa together. Without dialogue and an exchange of ideas and opinions, you can’t get to know the person you’re dating. You can’t determine if he’s Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong. Let’s face it: in most cases he’ll be Mr. Wrong. So, it just makes sense to determine right from wrong as soon as possible. Why date for a month or two only to decide you don’t like the other person. Find out on the first date if you can.

How to turn a movie into a good first date.

You can’t know if you’re to end the relationship only after watching a film together. All you can notice during a movie is whether he likes butter on his popcorn. The value of a movie date starts before you enter the theater and resumes after the movie is over. Here’s how a movie date can help you in the dating process.

Before the movie, watch to see whether your date is controlling and unyielding in choice of movies. Is he willing to compromise? Does he respect your preferences or laugh at them. When he chooses a blood-and- guts movie over your comedy film, ask him why he finds that kind of movie interesting. Here is your first inkling of his consideration as well as his taste in entertainment.

After your first movie date, discuss what each of you liked and disliked about the movie. The actual answers are unimportant. What you’re listening for are opinions, beliefs, and attitudes that will help you decide whether to continue to date this person.

Are you dating a boy or a man?

If your partners’ opinions are childish, he is probably not mature enough for a long-term relationship. One clue is if he got really excited when the machine gun mowed down all the people in the restaurant scene. This could be a hint that life is a video game to him or that he has some serious anti-social tendencies.

If he isn’t really interested in talking to you, decide right now that this is your first-and last-date. All he’s interested in is a short-term relationship. Usually that means that all he wants next is to have sex. On the other hand, if you can’t get a word in because your partner’s talking all the time, nod politely and yawn occasionally to signal that it’s getting late. Decline a second date from this windbag. He may be intelligent and charming, but he’s more interested in himself than he is in you.

Some Places to go on a Date

Stick to the season

Like you should eat in season to save money you should date “in season” to have fun. Don’t insist on walking around too much outside when the frost is permanently attached to anything you touch. Except if you have skates on your feet! Be active but do what you like. Dating is a great way to share your hobbies with someone else. Try to get them excited to try it, even if they suck at it. Make sure you show some compassion for a mate who flies screaming down a slope on a snowboard for you while you look all put together.

Share an interest

This is a tricky thing that usually becomes an actual problem in relationships and can just be plain helpful as a date idea: include your date in your life. If you don’t want them to be part of it, then why bother to date them? Instead of just watching sports on TV and having a pissed off girlfriend take her to an actual game. She is much more likely to have fun with you than watch you have fun on your own! Girls can get their couch potato moving by taking them to the gym. This goes for all interests, try to share them but do not force them on someone if they really do not like what they see. Taking a guy to a knitting club might just not be a thing to do! If you get desperate sit down with the other person and brainstorm on what you enjoy; if something brought you together it means you must have something in common from which you can find things to enjoy together.

It is important not to force interests upon a person if they try it and really decide not to like it; it is just as important to share things in a relationship as to have separate lives on the side. This is what will give you something to talk about on your dates! If you stop seeing your friends, stop scuba diving because your partner is afraid of water and stop doing the things you love, you will end up in a boring relationship with silences on both ends of the table. This is the beginning of the end and before you know it you are in the singles dating scene again starting the process all over. So finding a balance between shared interests and things you do alone early on is very important. Note however that just because you share all interests you are not doomed to fail; even if you are both psyched about golf, you can still go play just with friends. So don’t be too paranoid about finding an “interests balance”, rather if you continue dating the person try to get a balance in the relationship itself.
The key thing is to get out of the house and out of the restaurant. Movies also do not count as a real “date” because you are actually not interacting with the person. You could have watched the movie alone holding a big pillow and it would make little difference. Dates that will make you interact with the other person and share both your interests will not only teach you more about them, but also show how compatible you actually are. Needless to say this avoids great boredom later down the road!